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Interview with


Remembering the 20th Century: An Oral History
of Monmouth County
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| Mina Pomphrey |
Date of Interview: February
23, 2000
Subjects of the Interview: Russell Treiber and Mina Treiber Pomphrey
Name of Interviewer: Flora Higgins
Premises of the Interview: Monmouth County Library Headquarters, Manalapan,
NJ
Birthdates of subjects: N/A
Deceased: Mina: April 16, 2002
Russell: August 7, 2002
Ms. Higgins: Well, welcome!
We are most pleased that you came today to be a part of this oral history,
Mina and Russ.
Ms. Pomphrey: Thank
you.
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| Russell Treiber |
Mr. Treiber: Thank
you.
Ms. Higgins: New
Bedford, a part of Wall Township, is where you spent most of your
childhood. What early memories do you have about going to school,
for example?
Mr. Treiber: New
Bedford was one of six school districts in Wall Township, as I recall.
It was a two-room school, with I think perhaps a maximum of forty
students. We had first through the sixth grade, and then the other two
grades were in the second room.
Ms. Higgins: And who
organized all this?
Mr. Treiber: We had
two teachers. We had a principal and a teacher. The principal taught the
higher grades.
Ms. Higgins: How
high did the school go?
Mr. Treiber: Through
the eighth grade. But there wasn't a kindergarten, just first through
eighth grade.
Ms. Higgins: All in
two rooms?
Mr. Treiber: Yes. I
don't recall any kindergarten at our school at all.
Ms. Higgins:
Actually kindergartens came and went in New Jersey, as I recall.
Mr. Treiber: It
could be.
Ms. Pomphrey: We
didn't have kindergarten in those days. You went right into first grade.
Ms. Higgins: Was
there preschool?
Ms. Pomphrey: No.
Mr. Treiber: I was
six years old before we entered the first grade. And there was no
kindergarten; I know there wasn't.
Ms. Pomphrey: And
there was no preschool.
Mr. Treiber: Our teacher,
the one I recall, was Miss Osborne. She was a very beautiful lady, and
all the boys were in love with her. When her boyfriend came to pick her
up when school was over, we used to hiss at him and holler at him. And
she was so embarrassed! (Laughter)
Ms. Higgins: Was
that a local person, Miss Osborne?
Mr. Treiber: I don't
recall where she lived. She came in a car and left in a car, which
incidentally was very scarce in those days.
Ms. Higgins: Yes, if
you were six that was in the 30s.
Mr. Treiber: Yes, it
was back in like 1929 or 1930. But she was a great teacher, and I still
recall her name. I guess that has some bearing on it.
Ms. Higgins: What
kind of subjects did you have?
Mr. Treiber: Just
the Three Rs, as I recall.
Ms. Pomphrey: They
called it Arithmetic in those days, not Math.
Mr. Treiber:
Reading, Writing and Arithmetic. That's all they had.
Ms. Pomphrey: Right!
Reading, Writing and Arithmetic.
Ms. Higgins: So you
went to the school, too, right behind Russell?
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
Mr. Treiber: Yes,
she was two years behind me.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
we all did. There were five of us in the family.
Ms. Higgins: Were
your people farmers? How did your people get to Wall Township?
Mr. Treiber: My
father's family moved to Belmar, and opened a double house with a double
bungalow in the back. They rented that out in the summer time. That was
their income. My father met my mother there, and they moved up to New
Bedford, and built a home in an old gravel pit there. It was a little
one-room bungalow, actually.
Ms. Higgins: I am
surprised there were so many school districts. Wall Township must have
been very large, even then.
Mr. Treiber: I am
not sure they were districts rather than neighborhoods, do you know what
I mean? I don't know what the terminology was. We had one school
superintendent, and he used to ride a bicycle.
Ms. Pomphrey: Well,
it was quite a large place, a large township.
Ms. Higgins: Do you
remember the superintendent's name?
Mr. Treiber: Yes, it
was George Vanoot. The first week of school he would come on his bicycle
with a basket, and he would have a soccer ball and something else in it.
And that was the limit of our athletic equipment for recess. I always
remembered him because he rode from school to school on his bicycle.
Ms. Higgins: With
his ball.
Mr. Treiber: Well, he had
one ball for each school, but he would come to the New Bedford school
with a soccer ball.
Ms. Pomphrey: And then
he would leave and go to another school, and teach what they call Physical
Education today.
Ms. Higgins: Were
the girls and boys together?
Ms. Pomphrey: Oh,
yes.
Mr. Treiber: We had recess
twice a day, once in the morning and once in the afternoon. And, like
I said, they would grab the soccer ball and throw it out, and whatever
you did with it was up to you. They didn't come out there with you.
Ms. Pomphrey: There
was no teaching.
Mr. Treiber: No,
there was no supervision of recess, other than to make sure no one
punched someone else, or something like that.
Ms. Pomphrey: There
was supervision just on the playground.
Mr. Treiber: The one
thing I have to mention is that when recess was on, the first thing that
happened was the long line that formed for the bathroom, which was in
the back yard. The boys and girls would use the outhouses.
Ms. Higgins: Oh, was
that on your recess time?
Mr. Treiber: Yes, we
had to go during our recess time. It was very embarrassing! You had the
finger method, you know. You held up one finger for one type of deed,
and two fingers for another type of deed. And the teacher would either
nod her head or shake her head. But anyhow, it was interesting. But that
was the first part of recess: the first fifteen minutes was spent lined
up at the outhouse in the back yard.
Ms. Higgins: Because
I was thinking that two recesses, that was pretty nice. But I didn't
realize the bathroom break was built into that as well.
Mr. Treiber: Well
they were like thirty-minute recesses; they weren't very long.
Ms. Higgins: What
was the school day?
Mr. Treiber:
Probably 9:00 a.m. to 2:30 or 3:00 p.m. I don't know for sure.
Ms. Higgins: And did
you go about the same as we do now, Labor Day to the late spring?
Mr. Treiber: Yes, we
had the same seasons.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
think it was 180 days. I think it has always been that, and it still is.
Mr. Treiber: That is
a requirement by law, isn't it?
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
Mr. Treiber:
We never had a backstop for baseball, and there was never any field
marked out. As a matter of fact, the field we used was owned by the
fellow that owned the LeDeauville Inn, in Wall Township.
Ms. Higgins: What
Inn?
Mr. Treiber: The
LeDeauville Inn, it was called. It is where the high school is now. Mr.
Duvak owned that, and he used to lend us one of his fields for the
athletic field.
Mr. Treiber: Did all
you children get along pretty well?
Ms. Pomphrey: Oh, yes.
Mr. Treiber: Yes.
Ms. Higgins: Well, you had
to organize your own play.
Ms. Pomphrey: We're
still friendly with whoever is left there. We'll go down and see them,
and Russell attends church with Shirley Spade. Yes, we were very
friendly with them. And we still have good friends from that time.
Mr. Treiber: An interesting
part is that all of us boys from six to fifteen years old, and as a matter
of fact, we had a couple of them that were nineteen years old in the eighth
grade, we all had trap lines. We set traps for fur bearing animals, and
that was one of the big things. We would come to school with a burlap
bag with maybe a skunk in it, and we would throw it out by the steps.
And when school was over, we'd pick up the bag and go home to skin the
skunk. But everybody had a bag with a muskrat, skunk or a rabbit or something
in it! (Laughter)
Ms. Higgins: What
did you do with the skins, Russ?
Mr. Treiber: We
skinned the animals out, and stretched and dried them. Then we had to
walk two and a half miles up the road to Bailey's Corner and sell
them to Mr. Matthews, who had a fur business up there. He would buy it,
and we used to get a quarter for a muskrat! Isn't that something?
Ms. Higgins: Yes.
That was a lot of money then, wasn't it?
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
it was.
Mr. Treiber: Skunks
were worth fifteen cents.
Ms. Higgins: Weren't
the skunks a little problematical?
Mr. Treiber: Well,
we knew how to handle them. The only problem we had was when we got them
in the trap, we had to kill them without getting wet. (laughter) And
that was a problem.
Ms. Higgins: Because
you were on your way to school.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
right.
Mr. Treiber: I just
want to relate that the person who has fed the rumor that if you get the
skunk's feet off the ground in the back he can't wet on you, was wrong.
So we all occasionally smelled like skunks, but we didn't mind.
Everybody else did, too.
Ms. Higgins: I have
a vision that this activity of skinning small animals for their hides
was a very Western thing, but apparently it was in New Jersey, too.
Mr. Treiber: It was
local, sure. Almost every boy did it. That was your Christmas present. I
remember when I got six muskrat traps for Christmas, and that was a big
deal to us. We went and had them set in all the local brooks and
streams, and we were pretty much experts, you know, on where a muskrat
was and where he wasn't.
Ms. Higgins: What
did they do with them...make hats and boots?
Mr. Treiber:
Whatever! Coats or hats, they were shipped somewhere. Probably to New
York. We didn't get into the high economics, we just went for our
quarter.
Ms. Higgins: What
did you do with the insides of the animal? Did you eat them?
Mr. Treiber: Just
buried them. We had a black man that lived next to us, and he would eat
muskrat. And we would eat it if he cooked it, but my mother wouldn't
cook it.
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| Jesse Johnson |
Ms. Higgins: What
was his name?
Mr. Treiber: Jesse
Johnson. At that time, he was known as a colored man.
Ms. Pomphrey: He was
a very, very nice person.
Mr. Treiber: He was
the greatest guy I ever met.
Ms. Higgins: Did he
have kids?
Mr. Treiber: No, he
was single when he first moved in. Then he brought a bride up from
Virginia. And that was her name, Virginia, as a matter of fact.
Ms. Higgins: Were
they farmers?
Mr. Treiber: He
worked for the Justice of Peace, who lived right behind us in Wall
Township. The Justice of Peace's name was Neil Auger, which is a famous
name around here.
Ms. Pomphrey: It is
still a well-respected name in Wall Township.
Ms. Higgins:
Bailey's Corner, is that where the Municipal Building is now?
Mr. Treiber: Yeah,
it is on that road. Right. That road used to run all the way across from
Dundola to Village Corner.
Ms. Higgins: So you
made all these quarters. What did you do with the quarters?
Mr. Treiber: We ran as fast
as we could to the candy store. (Laughter)
Ms. Pomphrey: We had
one right on the corner by us.
Mr. Treiber: You
know for a nickel you could come out of there with a whole bag full of
green leaves, or root beer barrels, and I'm not going to tell you the
name of the other little licorice candy we got. I don't want to get
sued! But anyhow, that was the reason for the money raising. Nobody ever
told us to give Mom fifteen cents or anything like that.
Ms. Higgins: Was
that primarily how you made money as a child, with the trapping?
Mr. Treiber: There
was no allowance that I recall in those days.
Ms. Higgins: What
did you do for money, Mina?
Ms. Pomphrey: I
don't know. My brothers shared with me when they bought candy, but I
don't have the memory my brother does of all this.
Mr. Treiber: Is it
selective?
Ms. Pomphrey: I do
remember the Monmouth County Library truck coming, and we could go in
there. It was like a small bus.
Ms. Higgins: I can
show you pictures of that! It was our bookmobile!
Ms. Pomphrey: Right.
Mr. Treiber: That's
right.
Ms. Pomphrey: Was it
maybe twice a month or twice a year?
Mr. Treiber: Oh, it
was a couple times a year.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
it would arrive and we were enthralled to have access to that many books
at once because they didn't have any books in our school, like you can
go to the school library now and pick out a book. You couldn't do that
in those days.
Ms. Higgins: I can't
imagine a time when you just didn't have access to all the books you
ever wanted, although I must have lived through that time as well. Mina,
do you remember what you would like to read?
Ms. Pomphrey: Just
child books. I wasn't ever too into science. Russ probably would have
liked the science books, and my other brother would have, also. And I
read all the little girl books, and I am trying to think of their names.
Mr. Treiber: There was a series
of books called The Big Little Books. The appearance was a little
square, but they were really thick. They were the popular ones.
Ms. Pomphrey: There
is a name for the books that I liked, and I forget what it was.
Ms. Higgins: Was it Little
House in the Prairie?
Ms. Pomphrey: One of
those, yes. And there was another series of books.
Mr. Treiber: Dick
and Jane!
Ms. Pomphrey: Well, that was
in first grade, Russ.
Ms. Higgins: Oh, did
you read Little Women?
Ms. Pomphrey: That's
what I am trying to think of, Little Women. They were
interesting. But then I left there when I was eleven years old. One of
my memories is not about school. Up past our house was this huge
mansion, and wealthy people lived there. And their name was Buxbomb. But
it now has become a convent, right Russ?
Mr. Treiber: Yes.
Ms. Pomphrey: It is
used as a convent by the nuns. But they used to have an orchard, and we
would go up there. I have never found it yet, but they had an apple that
if you picked it, it would taste like bananas. It was delicious. But it
would taste like a banana.
Mr. Treiber: They
were called banana apples, right?
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
We used to go up there, and the people were very generous in letting us
pick. I guess they knew we were there, I don't know.
Mr. Treiber: They
had apple trees in their front yard.
Ms. Pomphrey: As
long as you didn't go over on their main property.
Ms. Higgins: Apple
farming is big business in Monmouth County. Potatoes and apples.
Ms. Pomphrey: Right.
We used to walk up there and get up in a tree, and we would drop down in
the creek to go swimming.
Ms. Higgins: May I
ask you what you wore?
Ms. Pomphrey: A wool
suit! Until I got it wet, I couldn't stand it. But that's what we wore.
Mr. Treiber: And it
used to be that you covered your knees, too.
Ms. Pomphrey: Oh, yes, it
was way down by your knees. And it was just plain wool.
Ms. Higgins: What
creek would that be?
Mr. Treiber: That
was Cherel Brook, the one that we used to swim in up there. Wall Wash
Sand & Gravel Company was just starting up when we were little
children.
Ms. Higgins: Oh, ok.
And did that company bring in a lot of people?
Mr. Treiber: That
was probably the biggest industry we had in that area. And then Mr.
Dubak, who was an immigrant from Switzerland, came in and he bought what
used to be the New Bedford Hotel. That was a stage stop, incidentally,
that hotel. And he bought that, and he turned it into a really, really
high-class restaurant. I am talking about limousines and Rolls-Royces,
and all the big boys were there on weekends, with chauffeurs.
Ms. Pomphrey: We
used to go down and peek at them, when they came in their limousines.
You know in those days, to see a big car roll up like that was a real
luxury.
Ms. Higgins: Do you
remember that name of the restaurant?
Mr. Treiber:
LeDeauville.
Ms. Higgins: Oh yes,
I have seen that name around.
Mr. Treiber: The
place burned down, and then he moved to a mansion up in another part of
Wall Township. You probably remember the one on Rumson Mill Road, up in
the northwestern part of Wall Township.
Ms. Higgins: Yes.
Mr. Treiber: But
this one was at Eighteen and New Bedford Road. That's where the high
school is.
Ms. Higgins: Were
your parents born in New Jersey or Monmouth County?
Mr. Treiber: Our
parents were from Newark. Well, our father was born in Newark.
Ms. Pomphrey:
I am trying to think of the street where it was all Germans.
Mr. Treiber: There was
Hamburg Place, until World War I. Then they may have changed it to Clinton
Avenue! (Laughter) Yeah, they didn't like the Germans!
Ms. Pomphrey: You
could do things in those days, couldn't you? You could change the name
of the street because you didn't like something.
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| Grandma Mount |
Mr. Treiber: Our mother
is from Manasquan, and her family goes right back to the Indians on the
Manasquan River. Actually I just got a picture of my grandmother from
Manasquan, whom I have never seen. I got it through the Internet.
I found a long-lost cousin on the Internet, and this is amazing, I am
telling you. It was the first time I saw her. But it brought tears
to me eyes, you know, because I had never seen her. Evidently she died
before I was born. But there is more about that mansion that was
built by Mr. Buxbomb. He was a Wall Street financier. He used to commute
daily on the train to New York. They were very generous people. On Halloween,
we would have to run real fast to make fourteen stops. So we would go
up there. He had two large, great big Great Danes. He would put them in
and tie them, because he knew we would come. And they would open the door,
and we would go in. They would have cider and doughnuts, always.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
remember that.
Mr. Treiber: Also
Mr. Dubak, the man who owned the LeDeauville Inn, he would open that up
and give us ice cream, cake, and a quarter. Do you remember he always
gave you a quarter?
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
Mr. Treiber: And
they were big thrills to us, you know. It was a big time. And Mr.
Buxbomb would hold an annual horse show up there. He had stands to sit
in, you know.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes, I
remember those.
Mr. Treiber: We children would
go up and sit in the top row, and all these high, fancy rich people would
come and say, "Get out of here, you little brats!" And Mr. Buxbomb
would say, "That's their seat. Leave them alone!" And I'm getting
emotional.
Ms. Higgins: That's
very nice. What kind of horse show? Was it like we have today?
Mr. Treiber: Yes, the jumpers,
and they would trot and pace. It was a New Jersey sponsored horse show.
But he always was generous.
Ms. Pomphrey: That
was a big thing, a big outing for us.
Ms. Higgins: What
became of Mr. Buxbomb?
Mr. Treiber: His family
still lives in Spring Lake. Bobby is still around, and Bobby was his son.
Of course he didn't go to our school, he went to a private school. But
he was always friendly with those of us who were around. And they were
very generous. Now one other thing is that at that period: Prohibition
was a big boost for our Township.
Ms. Higgins: I was
going to ask you about Prohibition.
Mr. Treiber: Everybody was
in the speakeasy business or making beer. As a matter of fact, my uncle
was a booze runner.
Ms. Pomphrey: News to me.
(Laughter) I'm learning a lot today!
Mr. Treiber: Now I
lived on 18th Avenue, which runs east and west. My brother and I were in
the front yard one day, and we saw these three cars come by. And these
guys were hanging out the windows with rifles and shotguns, and going
real fast. So we thought there was something going on. So we got on our
bikes, and we both tried to go and see. We went a little ways, and we
heard a huge explosion. And we found out later that these were
"G-Men" who had gone to raid a still on a dairy farm just up
the street from us. That was Hall's Farm, and I don't know whether or
not you want to use his name.
Ms. Higgins: Yes, we
do.
Mr. Treiber: But the
still blew out the whole side of the hill there, and one or two people
were killed. That's why these men were there; the agents had come to
raid that still. I can remember we went home and hid under our bed. We
didn't want any part of that stuff. But that was an interesting period.
And the Ku Klux Klan was very, very active in that area.
Ms. Higgins: I have
heard that. Tell us about it.
Mr. Treiber: Well, there
is a big hotel at Camp Edwards. That was relatively new when we
were children. Well, the Ku Klux Klan used to meet there every summer.
They had some kind of pow-wows, or whatever they called them. They would
have fires out on the front there, and everybody was in that stupid little
hood. And they were very active. As I told you previously, this Black
man lived next door to us. And the Klan came one time to harass him, and
my father went to his defense. And then I think it was a week or two later,
we found my father all beat up down in the field.
Ms. Higgins: No!
Mr. Treiber: But we
could never prove anything, you know. I'm not going to name the names of
the Klan members, but they were local boys.
Ms. Pomphrey: The
hoboes is one of memories of years ago living up there. They would
have a stick and a little thing, and they would come around just for
anything to eat. But I heard this story from my little friend, who is
100 years old. She said that around Trenton at that time they would
leave a little mark on your fence somewhere to tell the other hoboes to
stop there, that those people would give you something to eat.
Mr. Treiber: They
didn't get much at our place, did they?
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| Charles Treiber |
Ms. Pomphrey: No,
because our parents had five children. But that has always been so
interesting to me. If we were to tell our grandchildren that, they
wouldn't believe it. They had a little stick and a little package of
clothes, I guess. They really did come around in those days a lot.
Ms. Higgins: Did
they ever work for the money?
Mr. Treiber: They
would offer to, but not seriously. There wasn't any work!
Ms. Pomphrey: I
don't remember the Depression, but evidently that was part of it. I know
Mama sent us to the store to get a loaf of bread, and we would want to
go to the store because the one that went could have the heel or crust
of the bread. And that was a big treat to get fresh bread, and you could
have the heel if you went to the store! It was five cents a loaf.
Ms. Higgins: How
long did it take you to walk to the store?
Ms. Pomphrey: That
store was right on the corner. I would say it was about a block,
wouldn't you, Russell?
Mr. Treiber: Yes. It
is still there, but it's a pizza place now.
Ms. Pomphrey: It's
still there, in fact. But I have walked to Belmar, to 13th Avenue where
my grandmother had her home, and I would say that is a mile. Would you
say that is about right, Russ?
Mr. Treiber: Oh, are you kidding?
It was about four miles.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
would go down for an onion if my mother needed it. I'd have to walk down
that far, across the highway, to get an onion.
Mr. Treiber: Kind of
scary, wasn't it?
Ms. Pomphrey: But
there weren't a lot of cars then. We walked to church to Sunday School,
and how far was that? I would say a mile, right Russ? I think about a
mile. But we would walk to every Sunday School every Sunday
Mr. Treiber: The
church was full of children.
Ms. Higgins: What
church was it?
Mr. Treiber: That
little Wall United Methodist.
Ms. Pomphrey:
Russell is still a member.
Mr. Treiber: I have
been a member there since 1929.
Ms. Higgins: Was it
a new church when you started going?
Mr. Treiber: No, it
was built in 1854.
Ms. Pomphrey: It has
since then burnt down and been rebuilt. I don't know what year, though.
Mr. Treiber: It was
started as a Methodist Meeting in 1838. And in 1854 they built the
church, which is on a hill, and the fishing boats could see the light.
You know they used to have a night light on top of the church as a guide
to the boats out there in the ocean. Believe it or not, you could see
that light from the ocean. Now you can't.
Ms. Higgins: Did
that church have any connection with Ocean Grove? Wasn't that a
Methodist Campground?
Mr. Treiber: All
Methodist churches were individuals. The Methodist Episcopal churches
were all individual, self-supporting at that time. Then they conferenced
up in 1944, or something like that.
Ms. Higgins: When you went
to Belmar, did you ever go bathing in the ocean?
Mr. Treiber: Oh, please, again
with the wool bathing suit!
Ms. Pomphrey: You
too, occasionally. Everyone did. They didn't have anything else.
Mr. Treiber: I was so
embarrassed to go down to that beach with my grandmother and my aunt,
with their long stockings and woolen suits, and that bathing hat. And
never once did they ever go in the water! I never saw them go in the water.
Ms. Higgins: This
was your mother's mother?
Mr. Treiber: No,
this was my father's mother. My mother's mother, I never met. My mother
had eight brothers and one sister. And I am just now locating or finding
out what happened to everyone. They are all gone except one aunt.
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| Grandma Treiber |
Ms. Pomphrey: Mother
was a triplet, and she was the only survivor.
Mr. Treiber: She was
born at home, if you believe it or not.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
think I have said this before, but she knew sign language. And it's
really coming back to us now, because my granddaughter Kelly is a sign
language interpreter. So you wonder how that all comes back around. My
dad was a carpenter, and now my son is in the home improvement business.
So you just wonder if it does all come back again, you know.
Mr. Treiber:
Remember I told you we had a Justice of the Peace that lived behind us?
Ms. Higgins: Yes.
Mr. Treiber: The
State Police used to police Wall Township then. There wasn't any local
police force or anything. We had one constable: do you remember his
name?
Ms. Pomphrey: No I
don't, Russ. My memory is not like it used to be.
Mr. Treiber: But
anyhow on a Saturday or Sunday, the constable or a State Trooper would
bring a person that they caught violating the law to the Justice of the
Peace's office. And that guy would have to pay right there. Three
dollars went to the Justice of the Peace, one dollar went to the
Township, and one dollar to the police officer. We used to stand there
and watch that, you know. They think kids are dumb, but we knew what was
going on.
Ms. Higgins: I
thought those kinds of things happened in other states.
Mr. Treiber: The
constable would hire my brother and me to pull weeds in his farm or
garden, and he would give us ten cents an hour. He would look at the end
of the day and if he found any weeds, he wouldn't pay us. He'd say we
didn't do it properly. He was the nastiest guy!
Ms. Pomphrey: One of
my memories was of Daddy's garden. One of my chores was to go out with a
can of kerosene and pick the bugs off the potatoes, and then I'd throw
them in the kerosene. That was my job.
Mr. Treiber: Yes,
the potato bugs.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
probably missed many of the bugs.
Ms. Higgins: It must have
been some dinner hour with you reeking of kerosene and Russ of skunks!
(Laughter)
Ms. Pomphrey: But in
those days, we made root beer.
Ms. Higgins: How do
you make root beer?
Ms. Pomphrey: I
don't remember, but we used to do it.
Mr. Treiber: She
used water, and they had a root beer syrup that you would buy in the
store in a funny-shaped bottle.
Ms. Pomphrey: And we
used to put it under the house, I know, to keep it cold.
Mr. Treiber: Yes, it
ages. Aging is what gives it the flavor.
Ms. Pomphrey: Right.
And we used to have a taffy pull. Somehow, you know, you would pull the
taffies. And then what they call "S'mores" now with the graham
crackers. Mother's wasn't that fancy, but we did that. In those days you
didn't go out and buy all that, you did it with your children. And they
are our greatest memories, you know, of things we did. She took us swimming,
and we had fun together. We played kick-the-can.
Mr. Treiber: We made
our own games.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
we just had a lot of fun. And you played with your brothers and sisters,
and of course we had a lot of children around there. There were families
that were very close to us, so it was nice. So you didn't feel like you
had to be taken somewhere. As I say, we walked to Sunday School. You
weren't driven like you are today. If your child today wants to go a
block away, they are taken there. Not us. But I think it made better
people out of us.
Mr. Treiber: This
Sand and Gravel Company moved in there when we were very small. They
brought a dredge in, and within months, this huge lake was forming. They
were pumping the sand and washing the gravel, and separating the sand
and gravel. It became a huge lake, and that's where we swam when we were
children.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
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| Alice Mount Treiber |
Mr. Treiber: My mom
was a Gertrude Ederly and Florence Chadwick fan, you know. This was the
age for the channel swim by the women. And my mom would go in the Shark
River, wade in where Belmar is, and then swim out the channel and come
back again. You see that was the big sports thing for women in her age
group.
Ms. Pomphrey: She
was a great swimmer.
Ms. Higgins: How
about skating: did you skate on that lake?
Mr. Treiber: Oh, we went skating
on Dubak's pond, didn't we? We had a bonfire.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
that was right across from the big restaurant. He would let you go on
his property...he knew us.
Mr. Treiber: Mr.
Dubak was such a kind man. He was the owner of the LeDeauville Inn.
Ms. Pomphrey:
Children weren't as destructive then. But you respected property, and
people respected you in return for that. And we were allowed to go up to
that big mansion and get some apples, or we were allowed to go on his
property and skate.
Mr. Treiber: But we
didn't bother anything when we were children.
Ms. Pomphrey: As
long as we behaved, we were allowed to go anywhere in the neighborhood.
Mr. Treiber: You know what
they would do in Mr. Dubak's pond? He used to get the train every morning
to go to New York. If it snowed, the County didn't have the equipment
to plow snow, so he would hire a group of men to come up there with a
horse and wooden plow to dig him out so he could get down to the train
station. They would come by our house with snow flying all over the place.
And he always made it. But he paid for that himself; the township didn't
pay for it. That's a lot of memories. But this Wall Wash was our favorite.
Ms. Pomphrey: Oh, yes.
Ms. Higgins: The
what?
Mr. Treiber: We
called The Wall Wash Sand & Gravel Company the Wall
Wash. That was our swimming place.
Ms. Higgins: Oh, ok.
Ms. Pomphrey: That
was our swimming place, our private pool. Actually many families went
there, it wasn't just us. We had one or two horses that fell in there
and drowned. They would back up and dump the sand, and then the wagon
would pull the horses in. That happened a couple of times. That's how
deep it was. So you had to be careful. You had to have someone like your
mother with you.
Mr. Treiber: There
was a lot of quicksand then.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
And to this day I am afraid to go under water because my older brother
had a girlfriend, and I must have said something she didn't like. And
she held my head under the water. Every time I would come up, she would
sit on my head! So I am scared to go under water to this
day.
Ms. Higgins: Was
that your girlfriend, Russ?
Ms. Pomphrey: No, it was my
older brother Hank's girlfriend.
Mr. Treiber: Hank
was a teenager then.
Ms. Higgins: Do you
remember when you stopped being so admiring of your teacher and fell in
love with one of your classmates?
Mr. Treiber: That was
a long time later. You always had little crushes in school. If we were
bad, Miss Osborne's punishment for a boy was to make him sit with a girl.
(Laughter) And she invariably put me with Isabelle Kemper, whom I loved.
So I would be bad just so she would sit me next to Isabelle! (Laughter)
And oh, I thought she was the greatest. But you know, we were seven or
eight years old. But there were romances in the school with the older
kids.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
remember at school we had a little Christmas party, and I am sure it was
Hank that got stuck in the chimney. He was Santa Claus.
Mr. Treiber: Yes, he
got knocked out.
Ms. Pomphrey: He got
stuck in the chimney. And you know, I am a giggler anyway, so I was half
giggling and half crying while he was stuck in there!
Mr. Treiber: I'll explain
how that happened. Between the two rooms was a door. And they put the
fireplace at the door so he could come in from the other room out of the
fireplace. He had a pack on his back, you know, for the little kids. We
had these two big, heavy candlesticks that somebody had brought in to
use. And he hit this cardboard fireplace, and one of them came down and
hit him on the head. And he was out cold on the floor. And all the kids
were hollering and screaming. (Laughter)
Ms. Pomphrey: This
was a two-room schoolhouse, and we were trying to have a Christmas
party.
Mr. Treiber: Oh, I
remember that. I remember I played Tiny Tim in the school play. They
used to do that once a year.
Ms. Pomphrey: Whenever I played
any part, I was always the Ghost of the Past in black.
Mr. Treiber: The
Christmas Carol was the only one they ever did.
Ms. Pomphrey: I did
that probably there, and then I did it in high school. And I also did it
in our church. I always dressed in black.
Mr. Treiber: I
remember Mr. Vanoot, at the beginning of the school year, he brought in
a thing you put slides in that I think they called a stereoscope or
something. Is that what they call it?
Ms. Higgins: And
it's dimensional?
Mr. Treiber: Yes, we
were so thrilled. We had to put our names down on a piece of paper, and
they held extra hours after school for kids to look through that.
Ms. Higgins: They
are still fascinating to me.
Ms. Pomphrey: They
are.
Ms. Higgins: It's
amazing the way they can do that.
Ms. Pomphrey: Really
the children are missing so much. I don't like to keep going back to
that, but they are.
Mr. Treiber: I think
they are missing the old method of teaching in individual and
neighborhood schools. It is far superior to what they have now, I think.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes, not only
that, but just the comradeship and fellowship you built through the years
with people.
Mr. Treiber: Because
you weren't dealing with 500 or 1,000 students. We had probably forty.
Alice Spade was one of three who graduated from the eighth grade in New
Bedford one year. After the War started, there were only three kids that
graduated.
Ms. Higgins: Why,
where were the others?
Mr. Treiber: Oh, in
the service or gone. You know kids quit when they were sixteen and they
could go to work. We had several students who were eighteen or nineteen
years old in there that they just couldn't move. One kid said he stayed
in the seventh grade for years. When I asked him why, he said because
his father was in the eighth grade! (Laughter)
Ms. Pomphrey: What
is that building now, Russ? Is it like the Municipal Building?
Mr. Treiber: It's
their Board of Education building. Have you ever been through there?
Mr. Treiber: Then
behind that was the old school before this one was used.
Ms. Pomphrey: And one of our
very good friends next door, who owned a home and a printing business,
had life rights to that house. She passed away last year, so now the township
took over all that property.
Mr. Treiber: He was
a janitor, and he lived right next door. I don't know whether I
mentioned this, but all of us young boys got our sex education out of National
Geographic. Looking at the African pictures, you know! You've
probably heard that before, but it is true. Somebody would whisper,
"Look at that..." It was so funny! Miss Osborne was very
considerate of the children and protective of our innocence in the first
through the sixth grade. One day we looked in the yard next door to the
school, and there were a couple of dogs that had been enjoying one
another. And they were stuck together. So she went around and pulled the
shades down so we couldn't see it, but we had already noticed it. We
were used to that, you know, because we were farm kids. But she was
protecting our innocence. She was a very young woman, and I think it was
called Normal School that she graduated from. It was a teacher's school,
but I think they called it Normal School. But anyhow, she was a great
teacher. I don't think you needed a Masters Degree or anything like that
in those days. They were always women, but the principal was always a
man! Mr. Trowbridge was my mentor, I guess. He was a short, stocky,
little football player.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
remember the name, yes.
Ms. Higgins: And he
was the Superintendent or the Principal?
Mr. Treiber: He was
the Principal of the school.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
ever get sent to him?
Mr. Treiber: Only when
I got out of the sixth grade and went into the seventh. He was a very,
very mild man. I met Mr. Miller, the principal, one year. And I'll tell
you how I met him. They planted a row of little cedar trees along the
side of the school driveway, and they were great for vaulting over. You
would just run and hop over. But one day I landed in the middle of one.
And he came out and beat me with a geography book, and he had me by the
hair. (Laughter) Evidently he had paid for putting the trees in.
Ms. Higgins: Oh, and
you broke one!
Mr. Treiber: But he
beat me, you know! I didn't dare tell my father though, because I know
what I would have gotten. I would have gotten another one.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
Daddy wouldn't have gone to him and told him he shouldn't have done
that.
Mr. Treiber: And you
know what I remember very clearly? It was a gray geography book with a
picture of Columbus on the front of it. I bet they have still have those
books in the library.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
go on to high school?
Mr. Treiber: We were
moved. Mina and I were moved out of there to Marlboro, and we went into
a foster home. And I went to Freehold High School and then Leonardo.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
know a John O'Brien in Leonardo High School? He was about your age, and
he went there.
Mr. Treiber: No, not
unless he played football. I remember Truex, who was the greatest coach
that ever lived.
Ms. Higgins: What
did he coach?
Mr. Treiber:
Everything. He coached everything. If you went out to play football with
Ernie Truex, you played football whether you were good or bad. He put
you in that game even if you didn't remember which way to run. He
thought if you came out to play, you were going to play.
Ms. Pomphrey: That's
great.
Mr. Treiber: That's
what they are supposed to do.
Ms. Pomphrey: That's
right.
Mr. Treiber: You can't just
have stars, you know. I remember the first play of the first game with
Atlantic Highlands. I was playing right tackle, and we did a play and
I got flattened right out. The cheerleaders all ran out on the field,
picked me up, dragged me in, and put me on their lap. (Laughter) And I
didn't want to get better.
Ms. Higgins: Boy,
your brother got knocked out as Santa Claus, and you got knocked out
playing football.
Mr. Treiber: Going back to
the schools, there was great animosity between the schools. They were
all different little schools in the township. If some kid from Glendola
walked into the New Bedford territory, it was trouble. We had little scrimmages
in baseball, like four people on a team. We never could get a full team.
The farthest I ever went when I played soccer for New Bedford was over
at Oakhurst, and we thought we would never get there and back.
Ms. Higgins: How did
you go?
Mr. Treiber: A couple of parents
took their cars and took us over. There were no vehicles available from
the School Board, of course. We went over there, and we won. We beat Oakhurst.
We all had these farm boots on and a pair of overalls, no uniform! (Laughter)
As a matter of fact, I don't know if we even had a soccer ball.
Ms. Higgins: While
Mina was picking potato bugs, what were your chores?
Mr. Treiber: We had all kinds
of chores. I think I told you that my father built a house in an abandoned
gravel pit. When my brother and I were bad, our job was to cart topsoil
in a wagon from the field, which was a couple hundred feet down the road,
up to the front of the house so we could make a lawn. Well it didn't take
much for Pop to decide when we needed to haul twenty wheelbarrows of dirt!
And when you are seven or eight years old, that wagon is heavy.
Ms. Pomphrey: Dad
was a disciplinarian.
Mr. Treiber: We had
chickens, and a pig, and we had chores we had to do. We had to clean out
the chicken house, feed the chickens, make sure they had water, and kick
the pig so he wouldn't bother us. Another thing that Hank and I had to
do was to cart water from the neighbor's because we had no well. We had
to take two buckets and go get the water.
Ms. Higgins: Every
day?
Mr. Treiber: Yes,
whenever you wanted water.
Ms. Higgins: Every
day for every water need?
Mr. Treiber: For all the water
needs we had. Of course there weren't any inside toilets. And my poor
mom, since she did the wash, we had to light a fire in the back yard with
a double boiler. We'd have to carry water from the brook to dump in that
double boiler so she could wash. She would punch the clothes down in the
water and sit there and shave a shell of soap to make soap.
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| Charles Treiber, father to
Mina and Russell, at age 3 |
Ms. Higgins: You
didn't have to read Little House on the Prairie, it sounds like
you were living it!
Mr. Treiber: It
wasn't unique to our family.
Ms. Higgins: You
aren't that old!
Mr. Treiber: No, we
were little guys, then.
Ms. Higgins: There
were a lot of changes after the War, I guess.
Mr. Treiber: But you
know the unique thing is, across the field from us was a family named
Spade. They had a cow, and they gave us milk. They shared their milk
with us. As a matter of fact, I had to jump a brook to go over there.
And they used to give me milk in a milking bucket. One time I just
didn't make it across the brook, and it spilled everywhere. You know
that was the biggest loss in that area, a bucket of milk!
Ms. Pomphrey: We
used to walk to Cherel's for milk, too. We would buy it from him, but
the Spade's would just give it to us.
Mr. Treiber: Hank and I used
to kill the chickens and pick them. Only on Sunday did you have those.
And I always remember that Mom never bought two or three pounds of chop
meat at once. We went down and got a quarter pound of chop meat and made
sure we got a piece of suet with it. And they mixed that in with macaroni
or noodles, and you didn't eat the meat solely as a meat item. You ate
it in and amongst something else. We ate a lot of tomatoes, potatoes,
and whatever we had in our half-acre garden.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
have chicken eggs?
Mr. Treiber: We had
a lot of eggs. That's probably where I got my cholesterol count.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
have a refrigerator?
Mr. Treiber: No, we
had a window box with a piece of ice in it. You hung a sign in your
window. I don't know if you are familiar with that. They had signs in
different colors, and that meant the size of the piece of ice you
needed. The iceman could look from the street.
Ms. Higgins: Really?
Mr. Treiber: A
ten-cent piece was a yellow card, a quarter piece was a red card, etc.
It was a color coded thing for the iceman.
Ms. Pomphrey: You really didn't
have to go to the store a lot in those days. You had a bakery truck come
around, and then the iceman. Especially in Belmar, where Grandma lived.
They would come around almost every day. Your milk was delivered to your
front door, and the vegetable truck would come around. The man would come
ringing his bells, and you would go out and get what you needed. Every
day you would get fresh things, you didn't have to go to the store as
much and freeze things. I don't think they ever thought of freezing anything.
Mr. Treiber: I don't
even remember eating a hot dog when I was a kid.
Ms. Pomphrey: No, we
never had what they now consider "junk food." You just didn't
have it. We had homemade jam and things like that.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
go to Long Branch pier? Was that around then, or maybe Asbury Park?
Ms. Pomphrey: No.
Those things weren't around then.
Mr. Treiber: We went
to Asbury at Christmas time, Mina, but you might have been too young to
remember this. We used to get on a trolley at Belmar and go to Asbury.
It cost you like a nickel or so.
Ms. Higgins: I hear
more and more about this trolley. They never should have let that
trolley go!
Mr. Treiber: It used
to run all the way to Sea Girt!
Ms. Higgins: And up
to Campbell's Junction?
Mr. Treiber: No,
that was a different one.
Ms. Higgins: Yes,
but you could all connect.
Mr. Treiber: Yes, because
it went to Allenhurst, where the Jersey Central is now. That was the turnaround
for that run. But anyhow, that was a big thrill at Christmas to go there
because Newberry's and Woolworth's, the five-and-ten stores, were
both in Asbury,
Ms. Pomphrey:
Dilwick?
Mr. Treiber: No, the
one between Asbury and Ocean Grove. Fletcher Lake, isn't it?
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes, I think
it is Fletcher Lake. After Daddy got a car, on Sunday we would go down
and pick Grandma up. And we would go for a ride. I'm sure it wasn't far,
but there would be people along the street selling hot peanuts. And that
was big treat! Grandma would stop and get us a bag or peanuts. Were they
peanuts, Russ, or chestnuts?
Mr. Treiber:
Chestnuts.
Ms. Pomphrey: But
they were hot, and it was a big treat to go for that little ride. He
would find a hill.
Mr. Treiber: He used
to say, "We got an extra fifty cents this week, so we'll go for a
ride this Sunday."
Ms. Pomphrey: Right.
And he'd find a hill to go down, and he would step on it real fast when
we went over it. And that was a big thrill to us! (Laughter) We didn't
have fast wheels and things. But we have great memories.
Mr. Treiber: I
thought of another big chore that my brother Hank and I had. We would
bring down the wood. We didn't have any coal or anything else, just
wood. And that was our job, to get wood.
Ms. Higgins: This
was your only source for heating and for cooking?
Ms. Pomphrey: And
for hot water, if you wanted it.
Mr. Treiber: Yes, it
was for everything. We had one stove...the kitchen stove is all we had.
But the hardest chore, as I said, was getting the water. We had to go
across the street, up the hill, pump the water out there, and then carry
it home. And it would be slopping all over your legs in the cold
weather.
Ms. Higgins:
Whose well was it?
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Skippy and
Buddy Treiber
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Mr. Treiber: Our
neighbor, Herman.
Ms. Higgins: And
there was no water problem, he just let you do that?
Mr. Treiber: They
shared with us.
Ms. Pomphrey: We
finally did get our own well.
Mr. Treiber: But not
in our time. Skippy and Buddy had one.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
we had one by the time our younger brother and sister were around.
Mr. Treiber: You
know what a point is, I guess. It drives a pipe down with a point on the
end of it, and that's what they used to hook the pump to. We would drive
one of them down and within a month, it would all fill in with
quicksand. And it would clog the point.
Ms. Higgins: That's
the sand and gravel kind of soil, sure!
Mr. Treiber: Yeah,
that's why they had Wall Wash, Sand & Gravel.
Ms. Pomphrey: Years
ago you did hear a lot about quicksand. But I don't hear about it now,
do you? You would have to be careful where you walked because you could
go down in the quicksand.
Mr. Treiber: There's
still some.
Ms. Higgins: Maybe
when you left Wall, you didn't hear about it as much.
Ms. Pomphrey: Right, gave
up some good country. (Laughter) Then they had sidewalks.
Mr. Treiber: Another
thing in Wall that a lot of people don't know is that we were very aware
of the Indian artifacts when we were children. And all the farmers had
cans or boxes full of arrowheads and axes. All across the ridge there,
all the way from Manasquan up to Sand Hill in Neptune, it was all Indian
country. They used to call that one area there Indian Field. And
we knew that, and we were very aware of looking for axes and artifacts,
etc.
Ms. Pomphrey: What
about the horses? I can remember horses riding around.
Mr. Treiber: There
is something. Early one spring we woke up, and we heard clippity-clop,
clippity-clop. We looked out and saw 100-200 horses with soldiers on
them going by the house. It was the 112th Field Artillery from Newark,
and they were on their summer maneuvers out of Sea Girt. The 112th Field
Artillery was an old National Guard outfit.
Ms. Higgins: And you
could actually see them?
Mr. Treiber: Well,
they went right by the house! Wall Township was used for maneuvers in
those days.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
that's what I remember. I remember them running through the field.
Mr. Treiber: Oh, yes, and
they were shooting at one other.
Ms. Higgins: It must
have been a little hard on the potatoes.
Ms. Pomphrey: Well, that wasn't
our field. They wouldn't dare smash my potatoes.
Mr. Treiber: And
there was another source of money. It was hot, you know, in July and
August. And these guys would give us like twenty canteens and tell us to
fill them up for them.
Ms. Higgins: The
soldiers?
Mr. Treiber: Yes.
Hank and I would go down to the brook and fill up their canteens. And
they would give us maybe a quarter, and we had an arm full of canteens.
And then we were allowed to pick up the blank cartridges, you
know, when they were done shooting at each other.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
remember that.
Mr. Treiber: We
picked up those brass cartridges.
Ms. Higgins: The
casings were valuable, weren't they? Was there a market for that? Would
sell the brass casings back to the Army?
Mr. Treiber: No, we
would sell them to the junkman. That was another thing. The junkman
always came up the road with his bells ringing. And all of us kids were
in the junk business. We would save rags, paper, metal, and all kinds of
stuff. As a matter of fact, we used to dig it. That was one of our jobs
to go in somebody's dump and dig up whatever we could salvage.
Ms. Higgins: Like
automatic recycling. You sold it back to the junkman, who obviously sold
it to someone to do something with.
Mr. Treiber: Yes,
absolutely. It was down on 18th Avenue, because, you see, there
wasn't any Route 35 or 34 when I was a kid. They put those in when I was
ten years old or so. But we used to go down that long hill they called
Crossway Hill, and it goes by Burger King and Shop Right now. But the
highway wasn't there, and that was our sleigh-riding hill. And we used
to go down that hill, and we would go 500 yards or so.
Ms. Pomphrey: That
was a big hill.
Mr. Treiber: Then
there was always some nut, like my father, who had an old car. And he
would be down there with a rope attached to it, and we'd all hang on the
rope as he sped back up the hill. He would tow us all back up the hill
again.
Ms. Higgins: That's
nice!
Mr. Treiber: Oh, we
had a ball.
Ms. Pomphrey: There
wasn't that much traffic in those days. You had a car every half-hour,
maybe.
Mr. Treiber: The
highway wasn't even there.
Ms. Pomphrey: No,
there wasn't any highway, so you could do things like that.
Mr. Treiber: And
there was a dumpster on 18th, and we used to go down there. And I
remember Pop found parts for a cultivator, and we made our own
cultivator.
Ms. Pomphrey: Right!
Mr. Treiber: Over a
period of time, we got enough parts to put together a bike for my
brother Hank.
Ms. Pomphrey: Oh, a
new bike was unheard of!
Mr. Treiber: No, we
never had a new bike.
Ms. Pomphrey: One of
my memories is about shoes. Sometimes your shoes would have holes, and
maybe Daddy or Mom would put cardboard in them. But we had play shoes
and school shoes. And then the Sunday shoes would become our school shoes,
and our school shoes became our play shoes. But you didn't have ten or
twenty pair of shoes, you just had enough.
Mr. Treiber: I used to get
mine from Jack Wooly when he was done with them. I used to tell Jack to
take it easy on his shoes because they were going to be mine next! (Laughter)
Ms. Higgins: Who is
Jack Wooly?
Mr. Treiber: He was
a friend of ours that lived in the town. His father was a Councilman, so
he had new shoes.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
speak just English in your home? Was there any German spoken?
Mr. Treiber: No. My
grandmother would speak German if she got mad at you.
Ms. Pomphrey: She
used to call me a "dopnikoll" which means clumsy,
and I used to fall over everything. And I still do. She was a very sweet
person. She lived in Belmar and rented her bungalows and home out during
the summer.
Mr. Treiber: My
grand pop was the first employee that Don Sterner hired when he opened
the lumber yard in Belmar.
Ms. Pomphrey: The
Sterner Lumber, yes.
Ms. Higgins: And
this was her husband, right?
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
He died very young.
Mr. Treiber: He died
of an infection.
Ms. Pomphrey: We are
just now finding out a lot of nice things about our family. They're
things that we should have probably been checking into a long time ago.
But at our age, you start looking back, and you want memories. And we
have got a lot of good memories.
Ms. Higgins: What
would you do on long winter evenings in the family?
Ms. Pomphrey: Not
much.
Mr. Treiber: Go to
bed and keep warm.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
Mr. Treiber: You and
Skippy were in your own bed. You had a bed, and my brother and I had a
bed.
Ms. Pomphrey: And
then Buddy came along.
Mr. Treiber: My little brother
messed up the count there! (Laughter) But like I said, the only heat you
had was the kitchen stove. And we would take turns sitting up hours at
a time to keep the fire going in really cold weather. Hank and I used
to put very little wood on, because we were the ones that had to get the
wood. But my father was very generous with the wood.
Ms. Pomphrey: You couldn't
read because of the lights. So we just used to entertain ourselves, and
we went to bed early then. Once in later years, when our mother was no
longer there, my sister was having a birthday party, and Dad
made her come in and go to bed, because it was her bedtime. And the children
at the birthday party were still outside! (Llaughter)
Mr. Treiber: He put
you to bed at eight o'clock, whether it was dark or not.
Ms. Pomphrey: She
told that story. I say he was a very strict disciplinarian, but also a
very wonderful person. But he was strict. He didn't care what it was,
you didn't go away from his rules and regulations.
Ms. Higgins: Do you
have any advice that you might like to give the future generations as we
go into a new millennium?
Ms. Pomphrey: Oh,
just enjoy the simple things of life! Enjoy the outdoors, and look
around you.
Mr. Treiber: I think
my advice would be to talk to your senators and have them form a
Depression and go back to it! Then you can enjoy life.
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| Mina Pomphrey (right) and her granddaughter, Lindsay |
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes.
Just make friends and keep them. And sometimes it is hard to keep friends, but you have to work at it. The material things in life
are not that important. In fact I just wrote my granddaughter, Lindsay,
an e-mail the other day. I said yes, it is nice to be remembered, but
material things do not make you happy. You have to realize that. And she
thanked me! She e-mailed me back and thanked me for the
information. I thought that was cute. But I had to do it because
sometimes they think presents have to be a big thing. It doesn't have to
be a gold necklace, it can be a simple card or "Happy
Birthday." That's what I was trying to get across to her.
Ms. Higgins: It is
very easy for people to get caught up in all that.
Mr. Treiber: We knew
as children that if Mom and Pop didn't have supper one day, I could go
down to our neighbor's house. And she had six of her own kids. Or I could
go to another neighbor to get milk. But if you try that now, somebody
would call the cops and tell them there was a trespasser on their property!
We don't look out for one another's children, and not even for our own.
And it's pitiful! We had a home life, and we had a family. And as near
as I could tell, in those days communications were scarce, but the family
was "your people." If nobody else was around, they would be
there for you. But not now, families aren't even home now. I just think
they have too much.
Ms. Pomphrey: I
agree with that, I really do.
Ms. Higgins: Did you
notice a big change in life in Monmouth County with the War years?
Mr. Treiber: Oh, yes. Are
you kidding? Most of the people I know quit when they were a sophomore
or freshman in high school, and they joined the service. They volunteered!
Ms. Higgins: In
1941?
Mr. Treiber: Yes. They started
drafting people in 1940. The people that were in the National Guard, the
ones they used to train, they were gone. They were pulled into the service
right away. But then they started asking for volunteers, and conscription
started also. So we would volunteer as sophomores in high school so we
could pick the service we wanted. It was a tremendous thing! All the industries
were coming back to life, and you could get any job you wanted. My father
was starting to make money, but he couldn't be home with the kids either.
He was working for Fort Monmouth.
Ms. Higgins: Oh, did
he work for Fort Monmouth?
Mr. Treiber: Yes. I also worked
there, too. I joined the Marine Corps on my seventeenth birthday, or actually
three months before. They told me to go back to school, and they would
call me. But I didn't, and went to work at Fort Monmouth instead in 1942.
And my father was already working there. So we waited and waited. You
see, they tried not to send you overseas until you were eighteen years
old. So they would hold off your recruit training until you were 17 1/2
or so. So you always had a few-month period to wait. But anyhow, we all
went in. My father at that time was 35 years old, and he got a draft notice.
Because he worked at Fort Monmouth at a critical job, he didn't have to
go. But everyone in the neighborhood went in the service, that I know.
If my memory serves me, there was only one person from New Bedford who
lost his life in World War II.
Ms. Pomphrey: Well, Russ was
a Marine, our brother Hank was in the Navy, our brother Buddy was in the
Army, and then our cousin was in the Air Force. So it was very interesting
when they all got together or you would hear from them. Of course Russ
thought the Marines were the best, Hank thought the Navy was the best,
and it went on and on.
Mr. Treiber: The
interesting thing was that when we went into the service, it was
the first time for most of us to leave the County, probably. I went to New York on the train, and I thought I'd never find my way
home again! But that's true, we had never been out of the area.
Ms. Pomphrey: But
you appreciated that trip, I bet. You liked it probably.
Ms. Higgins: Where
did you train?
Mr. Treiber: Parris
Island. I had never been so far from home in all my life! Then a few
months later, I was on a ship heading for England. Then I was up in
Norway. And I didn't even know I was in one place until I looked at the
map! I was up over the Arctic Circle! Spittsburg in Norway is past the
Arctic Circle.
Ms. Higgins: With
the Marines?
Mr. Treiber: Yes, I
was on an aircraft carrier. We were with the British fleet, and we were
looking for the German battleship, Scharnhorst, which was their biggest.
She was birthed in Norway, and when our planes found it, then we took
off. Aircraft carriers don't fight battleships, you know. So we took off
north, and then the British fleet came in an engaged, and they sank it.
But we went so far north that we ended up in Spittsburg. Then on the way
home, we got a call telling us to stop in Russia and drop off our
planes. We had eighty-nine planes on the carrier. So we gave them all but twelve,
and we came home with just those aircraft for the sub patrol. And the
Russians would not let us off that ship. They wouldn't even let us on
the dock. I was very young, and I thought there was something wrong with
those people.
Ms. Higgins: Good
thing you couldn't speak Russian!
Mr. Treiber: These
women were intimidating men. They were big broads with a machine gun
over their shoulder, and they scowled at us. But we were friendly, you
know, giving them all our planes! Gees, all we wanted to do was go and
get some milk or something. There
was a section of Route 38 then, but we called it Sterner's Highway in
Wall Township. It ran between Route 35 and Route 34, east and west. The
Army was installing radar equipment at Camp Evans, in Wall. So they had
thousands of Army K52 Vans lined up side-by-side all the way up and down
that highway. And they would pull these out and install radar, and then
they would ship them to the port of embarkation to send them overseas.
And that was probably the primary industry in Wall Township at that
point. Also Wall has Diana Radar there, which is the first radar to
bounce the signal off the moon. And that's still there yet. It's
historical.
Ms. Higgins: What
did you do at Fort Monmouth?
Mr. Treiber: I was a
messenger.
Ms. Higgins: Almost everyone
I have interviewed has worked at Fort Monmouth. That had quite an impact
on this county.
Ms. Pomphrey: How
about Camp Evans? That is now a museum.
Ms. Higgins:
With what you know about all this, Russ, you might want to consider
working with them. There is a man named Fred Carl.
Mr. Treiber: I told
you before that we knew as children about the Indian impact on our area.
Well they just dug up some Indian bones at Camp Evans. And they have had
to write to all the Indian tribes and ask them what they want to do with
these bones. And I thought they had already done what they wanted, they
buried them and thought they would stay there for eternity. And here
they are digging them up and then asking them what they wanted!
Ms. Higgins: That's
a very interesting point!
Mr. Treiber: They
have a project they have held up, and it's very plain to see they had to
stop when they found these bones.
Ms. Pomphrey: That's
a project at Camp Evans.
Mr. Treiber: And
that's all in the woods at Shark River. We knew as kids that it
was Indian country. We used to go out there, scratch the ground, and
find an arrowhead.
Ms. Higgins: I was
going to ask what you did with the arrowheads.
Mr. Treiber: I gave
mine to Neptune Museum. I still have some at home that I found after
that. There is another interesting thing. In the winter when I worked
for the State of New Jersey, we couldn't work outside. So we used to go
up and clean the storerooms under the Statehouse, and stuff like that.
They have up there at least a hundred barrels full of Indian artifacts,
just in the barrels in the basement. If you dig an arrowhead, they want
to be notified right away, and they close the area off. Yet all they do
with them is throw them in the barrels. Isn't it better for you to have
them? Anyhow, this Camp Evans area now is where Marconi's first
east-coast radio area was. He has one of the old towers that is still
there.
Ms. Higgins: As
children did you go over there and play or anything?
Mr. Treiber: No,
that was far from home when we were kids.
Ms. Pomphrey: Yes,
that would be far for us.
Mr. Treiber: Plus, I
was scared to death of that Ku Klux Klan then. They had a terrible
reputation when we were kids.
Ms. Higgins: I am
shocked, I really am. I had heard rumors, but this is the first actual
authentic statement I have heard about the Klan's activities in
Wall.
Mr. Treiber: I could
mention names, but...
Ms. Pomphrey: No,
you don't want to do that, Russ.
Mr. Treiber: Most of
them are gone now. I think there is one guy still around that was a
member. There were international people that came, too. I would doubt
that any of the local people would have beat up my father. But some of
the big leaders would, because they didn't know him. But anyhow, he went
to the defense of Jesse.
Ms. Higgins: What
was your father's name?
Mr. Treiber:
Charles.
Ms. Pomphrey: Charles
Henry Treiber.
Ms. Higgins: Well, I
want to thank you for coming today.
Ms. Pomphrey: Thank
you for inviting us.
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